I have 3.5 dd and am about to start f/t work. She will go to private nursery 3 days p/w, and I have been offered 2 days with nanny share. The nanny is lovely, v experienced, good refs, and does 4 days p/w with another local mum who is employing her correctly, paying NI and tax etc. But as I only need 2 days p/w, she has suggested I pay her for these days in cash.
What do you think about this? Are there reasons why I should not? I know she will be avoiding some tax and I guess this is not strictly legal. But it seems fairly harmless for the small cost (£65 per day) and small portion of her fully taxed role.
I do have the option of sending her to the private nursery 5 days but I really think it would be better for my daughter to have some time in a home/outside environment with a known carer too and this seems a good mix.
What do you think?