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Childbirth

Share experiences and get support around labour, birth and recovery.

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Probably a really stupid question about skin to skin...

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bsmirched · 02/07/2010 15:23

Hi all,

I've read lots about the benefits of skin to skin contact at birth and am very keen to ask for it. What I'm wondering is, I'm not planning on labouring in the nude, so what happens? Do I just whip my top off the minute he or she pops out? Will I be in a fit state to do this? Do I do it before hand? If so, when?

As I said in the thread title, probably a silly question, but please humour me!

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bluecardi · 02/07/2010 15:26

If you're wearing something you'll just lift it up or take it off at the right moment.

Carbonated · 02/07/2010 15:28

I was wearing a nightie shen DS1 arrived and he was placed on my stomach, then whisked away to be weighed etc (don't get me started on that...) and then the MW helped me to take my nightie off for the prolonged skin to skin.

Chelle1986 · 02/07/2010 16:11

I actually think thats a really good question - there is no way on this earth I will give birth nude, and I hadn't thought of that...!

Bonsoir · 02/07/2010 16:12

I gave birth nude - I got in the bath a few hours before and never got dressed again. Quite honestly it makes it much, much easier to give birth!

Carbonated · 02/07/2010 16:15

Same here Bonsoir (with DS2) and I am normally a total prude. Labour has a funny way of making you not care as much about these things as you might think beforehand.

thisisyesterday · 02/07/2010 16:16

i wasn't plann ing on labouring nude either

but mid-labour i lost all inhibitions and got rid of the annoying clothes and did it naked!

if you really don't want to labour naked then either wear something with buttons that you can undo when baby is born, or take your top off/lift it up

Marjee · 02/07/2010 16:39

I gave birth wearing my top and bra (turned up pushing so only had time to take bottom half off). Ds was put on my stomach straight after birth, then after placenta and stitches I stripped off for skin to skin and bf.

rebeccacad · 02/07/2010 16:47

I had no plans to be nude either, but was in the bath until I rather unexpectedly started pushing and there was no way in hell that getting dressed occurred to me at that point. Even though 2 London ambulance crews and 2 midwives got to see me in all my glory.Nice. I do now wonder what the young ambulance chap thought when he found me in my bathroom, on the bathmat on all fours with my bare arse in the air repeating 'i must not push, i must not push'...?

Anyway, should you manage to keep your modesty, just wear something loose which can just be lifted up or opened with buttons.

Marjee · 02/07/2010 16:52

I've just remembered watching a birth dvd the mw gave me when I was pg. The woman gave birth on all fours in a big t shirt and as soon as the baby was born the mw passed him through her legs and up the t shirt so she had skin to skin straightaway.

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bsmirched · 02/07/2010 16:55

Thanks everyone. I'm being induced on Monday due to blood pressure problems, so hopefully your advice will come in handy sooner rather than later!

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FessaEst · 02/07/2010 20:35

If you are being induced etc, you could ask for a hospital gown and wear it with the gap at the front (it ties up until you need it open), then it's their laundry .

I had a water birth and wore a tie-up halterneck tankini top, just undid the tie and cuddled DD to my bare chest.

christina1971 · 02/07/2010 20:45

Good luck bsmirched! I didn't think about it until a few days before, either, and midwife recommended a comfy, loose t-shirt (without bra). Hope things go well for you on Monday.

harverina · 02/07/2010 23:03

Not a stupid question - before labour I was very shy about showing my boobs! Wasnt so bothered about people seeing the other end but my top half I was worried about! My MW was very discreet and helped me take my nightie off. I had bought nighties with buttons to open but it was too much hassle in the end and to be honest, I stopped worrying about it. All I wanted to do was cuddle my DD.

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bsmirched · 02/07/2010 23:19

Thanks again everyone - suppose I better get my birth plan printed off, such as it is!

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booyhoo · 02/07/2010 23:21

i wore a nightie taht had buttons at the front (not as groovy as it sounds actually quite nice) and when ds was born i just opened the buttons and slid him inside and pulled a blanket up round him.

DuelingFanjo · 02/07/2010 23:22

Do they not provide some kind of sheet or blanket after the delivery? what about warmth?

Esme01 · 02/07/2010 23:23

wear a pyjama top with buttons that you can open

Earhart · 02/07/2010 23:24

I wore a nighty with lots of buttons during labour then took it off first time, and a T-shirt second time as had no time to change. Do put in the birth plan that you want skin to skin asap after birth, as I forgot all about it second time around!

booyhoo · 02/07/2010 23:29

yes they do wrap the baby in blankets once they have checked all the things they are supposed to and this is usually pretty quick.

DuelingFanjo · 02/07/2010 23:35

no - I mean don't they provide a sheet or blanket for the mum?

booyhoo · 03/07/2010 01:46

i had a sheet put over me once he was out but it only really covered my middle as i had to get stitches. hospitals are usually roasting anyway so i doubt you will be cold.

DuelingFanjo · 03/07/2010 10:42

I know people say 'oh well you lose all dignity once you have given birth so it won't matter' but, really, they don't even give you something to cover up with?

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booyhoo · 03/07/2010 12:58

when i had my stitches there was only the midwife and OH in the room, once she was finished i had bath and changed and went to the ward so there wasn't much chance of anyone seeing anything. really, you probably wont even be aware that you are uncovered if you are having stitches, and they put the sheet up over my knees so really only the mmidwife could see my bits, which was important as she was weilding the needle but they do give you sheets.

YunoYurbubson · 03/07/2010 13:10

I wore a little stretchy vest top and just tucked the dc inside it.

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