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Teapotty · 17/06/2010 07:20

I know everyone always tells you: if you're unsure, then you're not in labour, BUT...

I am 40 weeks with DC1 (today is due date), and got what I presume was my show yesterday, which has increased. Had quite a few twinges yesterday and then since late last night period-like pains. But they're not very regular and they are not that bad. Other than that, I feel fine. In people's experience, does this sound like early labour, or a false alarm?

Also, I got told yesterday at a regular midwife appt (before things started happening) that baby is posterior. First time they have told me that (and position was determined just by palpation rather than scan etc), so am now bricking it that labour will be truly horrific! Any advice on coping with posterior labour most appreciated!

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mumtoblaire · 17/06/2010 07:29

Stay at home until you absolutely can't cope anymore.

Can't help with the posterior part I'm afraid but good luck.

I am sure someone will be around soon with some advice.

Keep us updated

addictedisalmosthalfway · 17/06/2010 07:37

cant help, so just bumping.

good luck

Teapotty · 17/06/2010 07:47

Thanks! Yeah, plan such as it is is to stay at home as long as poss. Will eventually go to hospital when I can't cope, and at that point I'll just see what happens. Only thing I am definite about is NO FORCEPS!

Got the TENS machine at the ready and a ball, so I guess I will just start using them if/when things start happening "properly"...

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BythewayItsStillMe · 17/06/2010 07:52

I agree with mumtoblaire, stay at home until you can't cope anymore. If you get worried then call the labour ward.

DS was posterior but no one told me until I was about to deliver so I can't really help with advice!
Just go with your instincts, keep moving around and remember to breathe!

Maybe go for a walk? Anything that'll get your baby wriggling!
Going up and down the stairs sidways was one I quite liked doing. DH didn't after about the 12th time of doing 3 flights of stairs slowly!

And good luck!

I'm at work today but I'll check back here when I get home, will be thinking about you.

hippopo · 17/06/2010 08:22

I think my yoga teacher recommended getting on all fours to help turn baby - scrub some floors or like me on the weekend get an unhealthy obsession with having clean skirting boards - baby's gotta have clean skirting boards!

Teapotty · 17/06/2010 08:29

I've been v active during my pgy -- still walking for an hour a day, and still doing my pregnancy yoga classes, so am doing lots of the whole bum-in-the-air things anyway. Yoga classes being preferable to floor cleaning!

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SelinaDoula · 17/06/2010 08:58

Sometimes when baby is posterior you get a long pre-labour, up to 2-3 days of niggly contractions, or ones that get closer together and stronger but then fade off again when you rest.
Eventually active labour kicks off, but the biggest problems people have are getting tired out. Not eating or sleeping for 2-3 days before strong labour kicks in leaves them exhausted and worried.
If this happens, you can get through it, and often when labour picks up it is fast and fdurious.
Make sure you stay fed, rested and distracted as long as possible.
I give a posterior handout in my homebirth group, will copy it here for you-

IF?

You?re waters break as the first sign of labour

OR

You?re contractions are all in you?re back

OR,

You?re contractions are irregular
5 mins, 10, 7, 5, 4, 15, 20, 3, 3,10 etc

Take 200cc of homeopathic pulsatilla remedy

If you are not having contractions then try-

Massage with clary sage oil
Nipple stimulation, preferably with an electric breast pump and both breasts at once for 10 mins
Acupressure- See-
acupuncture.rhizome.net.nz/acupressure/induce.aspx
Also usefull for posterior position, descent, pain relief, nasusea, failure to progress and cervical lip.

Do inversions in between contractions for 2-3 mins (3- in a row)
Be prepared for a possible long labour, eat, drink and sleep if you can.
Try different positions and movement, then have rest periods.
Try ?sifting? with a rebozo/cloth for 2-3 mins between contractions
Try sitting on the birth ball doing fast circles
Try a deep warm bath
Try a pelvic floor release
(For techniques see www.spinningbabies.com)
Go for a walk
Relax,
Go up and down stairs sideways
Most of these techniques can also be used in active labour.
Put on TENS.
AS things get more intense (contractions at least every 5 mins, lasting 1 min, cannot be talked through or ignored) try hot towels over the back.
Keep moving around. Do 2-3 contractions in one position, then move, on birth ball, hands and knees, stand, swaying, rocking, go sit on the loo, dance, march on the spot, rest on your side

If labour is long and not progressing, keep trying the acupressure
Try pelvic lift
Try lunge, do both sides!

PUSHING
If baby is malpositioned you may get a long lull when contractions die down, REST and don?t panic, don?t try to push until the urge is overwhelming.

IF pushing is not going well try-
Lunge (on both sides)
Walk to toilet
Walk up stairs (if at home)
2 Contractions on hands and knees, 2C on left side, 2C on right, 2C knee chest, 2C standing/squatting, repeat
Try Dangle or pulling down on cloth
Try pelvic release
Try double hip squeeze

Good luck!
Selina x

Teapotty · 17/06/2010 09:06

Thanks Selina. I will try some of your tips. If the baby is in fact posterior (I am a little bit sceptical... feet kicking me high on my right, a firm bump on my left side: sounds ok, no?) then I guess I could be in a couple of days of am-I-aren't-I before things start truly kicking off.

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BythewayItsStillMe · 17/06/2010 22:58

Hows it going teapotty?

Any progress?

mumwithbumandtum · 19/06/2010 21:41

Erm, I had a posterior birth with DS1 and my advice would be, get an epidural ASAP and don't try to be a hero. It f*ing hurts and you will end up with forceps or a C-section in any case. Having said that I could have been unlucky as they say 90% of babies turn at the last minute. I'm 36 weeks pregnant with DS2 and if it's posterior I'm going for all the drugs i can get. Good luck...

Teapotty · 22/06/2010 23:03

Hey everyone:

Sorry for the (very) delayed response. So yes, it was labour and yes mumwithbumandtum you were right... it did f*ing hurt and did end up with first a ventouse then manual turning then a c-section. Lovely. And that was after 56 hours of labour. I had the epidural around the 45-hour mark!! Best decision ever.

He is totally worth it though, super cute.

But anyway, that is why I couldn't update for quite a while. Back home now and just trying to cope with the normal new born stuff whilst recovering from that!

Thanks for everyone's messages though, they were very helpful.

xxx

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BythewayItsStillMe · 23/06/2010 17:24

Oooh, congratulations!

I started getting contractions on the Saturday and didnt have DS til the , so understand how you felt with the long labour!

BythewayItsStillMe · 23/06/2010 17:25

hmmm, don't know why its vanished but that should say 'til the friday'!

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