My DS was born in 2007 weighing 9lb 6oz. It was a normal vaginal delivery in hospital, but he had a shoulder dystocia which took a couple of minutes to resolve. He's fine, thanks mainly to my excellent midwives.
I'm now 23 weeks pregnant with DC2, and have had varying opinions on what will/should happen this time round. Both the MW and the consultant ruled out home birth (not sure how I feel aobut this TBH) but the MW said I'd probably be induced around my due date in baby looked big.
Consultant said this wasn't the case, and I could wait for spontaneous labour, use the pool, no continuous monitoring etc. but a consultant would be present just outside the labour room for my second stage, and all MWs on the unit would be briefed to make sure they're up to date with their SD training.
This sounds good enough to me, but I am interested to hear what others did second/subsequent time round after a shouler dystocia. Were you continuously monitored/was C-section pushed on you during labour etc etc?
I've just finished reading Ina May's Guide to Childbirth (which I loved!) and plan to put in my birth plan that I want to be on all fours to deliver/put on allfours immediately should it look like another SD is occurring. Anything else I should be mentioning?
I know it's a bit early to be planning all this but I am nervous already,and really don't want to be! Thankyou