This may sound a bit dumb...I am a first time mum (fingers crossed), 28 weeks. I am not too concerned about the birth from my perspective - hell, it will hurt, I will do what my midwife tells me. I have started to get more attached to my baby now that I can feel him moving around more and he seems quite safe where he is - all warm and snug. If I get worried about him at this stage the MW can listen to his heart and tell me he is OK. I am reluctant to let him go...But what about during the birth - when his poor head is being all squashed up and squeezed, how will they be able to tell that he is OK then? What if he gets tangled up in his cord, how will they be able to tell?