My midwife mentioned a natural third stage at my last appointment, so I had intended to do a bit of research, thanks for the excellent articles posted here I have now decided to opt for it!
We are planning a home water birth, I had the injection with DS1 & DS2 and to be honest it was more of a, "right I will just give you the jab to deliver the placenta", with fundal pressure and tugging which I recall being a very odd and unnatural feeling!
As well as the retained placenta issue, the benefits for allowing the cord to stop pulsating are quite compelling.
I had issues with both my sons being whisked away by unknown staff (brought in after delivery)after a short time for the "weighing,prodding etc", and with my first the auxillary actually dressed him and I remember feeling quite anxious that a stranger was handling my newborn!
When really there should have been no rush, both were straight forward deliveries, no tears or any interventions it just felt like their process for speeding up our departure!
So I quite like the idea that I will be able to snuggle with DC3 (due in 4 weeks) while I deliver the placenta naturally, without having to watch like a spectator while everyone else gets to enjoy my baby!
I feel so much more informed, and my DH agrees. We are def not lentil weavers and have no illusions over the actual practicalities, obviously taking advice from the midwife on the day.
But for us, right now and given the circumstances it feels like the right choice for us!
Good luck to everyone! x