I am 38+4 and have been in hospital since 37+1 due to unstable lie. This is my second baby, the first I delivered naturally with no problems at 9lb 10oz. This one was estimated to be over 8lbs at 35 weeks so it likely to be between 10 and 11lbs at birth. They examine me every morning and baby seems to be mostly oblique, sometimes transverse and has twice been head-down but never engaged. The second time he was found to be head-down was this morning and the consultant said if he's still head-down tomorrow, I can go home. Am now confused dot com as previous consultant who discovered first head-down said no such thing. Am booked in for elective c-section at 39+1 (on admission, was given choice of ECV followed by induction at term or elective c-section - didn't fancy the first option, plumped for a bit of concrete planning), which is only 4 days away. Would love to go home as already have 2 year old but I also really want c-section so I can get on with recovery and new expanded family life. Am I mad? Would I be able to insist or would they/could they refuse to do it if baby is head-down, even if not engaged? Don't understand why risk is less if head is down but not engaged as he's still "free" to move about. Thoughts, opinions, experiences, advice, etc, gratefully received.