Hi there,
FWIWS my breech birth experience
My 2nd baby DD was breech, found out by chance when I went for a further scan due to measuring small for my dates.
I decided to go for vaginal breech birth as 1st baby's DS birth was straight forward & almost enjoyable!!.
They said DD was small (ended up 7ib 13 1/2 ozs) and in a perfect postion to attempt vaginal delivery & as my first baby was fairly big it should be no problem.
I researched as much as possible so I knew what should/shouldn't be done.
DD's due date came & went so CS was booked for the Monday but went into labour naturally on the Saturday before.
I took myself off to hospital, was given head midwife & the consultant on duty had lots of experience of breech births.
Got to 9cms on gas & air, midwife left room for quick bite to eat then noticed DD heart rate was dropping - DH ran to get midwife back in, they tried moving me around, into different postions then called in consultant but within 2/3 mins decision was made for ECS.
By the time I was in theatre, I had the urge to push. However, due to heart rate dropping ECS went ahead, when I came round, straight away had further contractions then a bleed.
This was the more scary thing I have ever experienced, luckily they managed to stop bleeding & I was kept in recovery overnight.
Head midwife came to see me next day & said it took just 13 mins from DD heart rate dropping to her being born, she also said her cord was short which may explain why she was breech.
I feel that the bleed (which for me was by far the worst part)was due to getting as far as having the urge to push but my body not knowing DD was born due to CS - not sure how true my theory is!!!.
It has scared the shit out of me, now pg with 3 baby (5 years later) & have been waking in the middle of night feeling very panicky thinking all sorts of things that could go wrong this time.
If this baby is breech then I will most certainly go for another CS but if not I will try a VBAC.
However, my friend had an awful first birth but then her second baby was breech - which she was not aware of & she had a really lovely birth.
Don't know whether this helps in any way & whatever you decide will be the right decision for you but to remember that as with all births what you want & what you end up with can be two different things even with all the will in the world to do it naturally.
However,my care at all times was outstanding & the one thing I feel is that when they know that your baby is breech there is no messing around, any sign of distress to baby & CS it is.