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Tonights One Born Every Minute...

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mama2moo · 23/02/2010 22:10

Just curious - Why did the woman have a catheter and drip after she gave birth? I heard the midwife say she needed them.

My heart stopped when the baby was born and wasn't breathing

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rubyslippers · 24/02/2010 19:35

the water birth was amazing

i had one with DD and it was calm and wonderful

i wasn't quite as calm as the lady who seemed to breathe the baby out

i sobbed during that bit

MumNWLondon · 24/02/2010 19:40

chunkypickle - my water birth with DS was just like that water birth, i was calm collected - but i agree they didn't show much as it wasn't good TV. I was in hospital for 2 hours before that point, coping well with G&A / tens, telling the midwife it was all very manageable! the midwife was actually not near the pool at all, i was was in a state to give her a running commentary, eg 2 knuckles length to go.

and to everyone else - can't believe how unsupportive the partners are!!! think that NHS midwifes need to run courses for expectant fathers!

lola0109 · 24/02/2010 20:51

I too am appalled by that tosser, surely the mw could have told him to leave?

But that woman with the waterbirth!!! WOW!! I'm due DD2 in 4 weeks and SIL is due DC1 3 days before me, I actually text her last night to say that woman is my inspiration!

she just breathed it out!!

BertieBotts · 24/02/2010 20:52

I don't think it is true that all waterbirths are calm with no screaming and all hospital births on dry land are dramatic and involve lots of screaming - there must be a crossover!

I saw a great home waterbirth on a free NCT DVD (Happy Birth Day I think) in which the lady screamed/moaned quite a lot, but seemed in control - it was her 5th baby I think. It scared me a bit at the time (I was pg) but not too badly - though I think the pushing stage is probably harder on dry land and especially on your back.

Chellesgirl · 24/02/2010 23:20

No Bertie I agree, I dont think all water births are that calm either...but I have yet to meet a mum who didnt like it or say it wasnt of nay benefit. And its tru not all labours on 'dry land' ROFL are bad...mine was pretty much blissful - even being laid on my back for 7 hrs, being carted in a bumpy ambulance and not being able to move...no pain relief but honestly blissful and I can remember it...and I would do it again (but next time is going to be water, if I blessed).

BertieBotts · 24/02/2010 23:27

Yes I would love a waterbirth next time - laboured in water with DS but had to get out as they wanted to see what was going on when I had been pushing for 2 hours with no results. I do think water has a calming effect and it must be slightly less painful as it will soften the skin and make it stretch more easily.

Chellesgirl · 24/02/2010 23:45

Pros: Reduction of pressure on the abdomen. Buoyancy promotes more efficient uterine contractions and better blood circulation, resulting in better oxygenation of the uterine muscles, less pain for the mother, and more oxygen for the baby.

Immersion reduces opposition to gravity; supports the mother's weight so that her energy can be used to cope with the contractions.

As a woman relaxes deeply in water, her hormones kick in and she starts progressing faster and with more rhythm; labor becomes more efficient. - now for this one...anyone who thinks getting into water before your at least 6 cm is most likely going to halt thier contractions as its so relaxing. But on the other hand if your in the third stage of labour and your very tense, water can actually speed the process up, as it can help to relax the 'scared' muscles. Its also good if a mother is seen to have high blood pressure during labor - warm water is a natural way of lowering blood pressure and is why they say women with hypotension shouldnt have a water birth for the fear of the blood pressure becoming dangerously low therefore not giving baby enough oxygen.Sometimes some mums panic once they are in the water -if they are ill prepared..as the feeling of claustraphobia sets in. When your at all tense during labor and birth you halt the process - your shoulder muscles are included...you have tense shoulders - your pelvic floor muscles will be tense too.

Now some birthing 'experts' claim that Immersion in water is more effective and safer than an epidural - and call a water birth an 'aquadural'

A warm moist air surrounding the mother can make it easir to breathe and if there is a mother suffering from asthma it can be of great help.

"Greater involvement of the father. Because the mother's pain and stress is so greatly reduced, it is much easier for fathers to particpate and take a more active role in the birthing process. Many men are reluctant to become involved in the birth experience when they know that the mother is likely to endure intense pain, trauma and suffering during labor and delivery." right so my DP didnt really do anything at dds birth, just sat there till I was ready to push then gave me a lil bit of encouragment and let me use his hand for leverage...he knows he wants me to go for a waterbirth next time so that the stress is taken off both of us...midwives can feel around a bit too much when your on 'dry land' ;) and in water, its not so easy ;)

A water birth allows for a quiet, relaxed transition for baby, from uterus to outside world. being used to staying in water for the past 8/9 months and then being grabbed by random hands and pulled (sometimes) into this strange environment can be scary, being born into water help the transition...and baby does not take a breathe until he/she reaches the surface - did you see how alert the water birth baby was on One born...

and lastly oh so much of a cleaner baby ;)

This is my fave site! www.homebirth.org.uk/water.htm

missedith01 · 25/02/2010 12:16

Husband was incredible. When he said that bit about having been there for 8 hours already I think a decent proportion of the female population were probably muttering "Well sod off, then! Who'd miss you?"

TBH the midwife also got on my nerves. Far too chirpy. I'd have had to tell her to tone it down a bit at some stage and give me some peace.

thedollshouse · 25/02/2010 12:38

I liked the midwife, normally I find chirpy personalities quite annoying but I think in labour I would love someone with an optimistic outlook telling me I am wonderful.

I actually found the birth scene very scary, II've watched a few births on TV recently and have been surprised at the number of babies who need assistance.

I'm not sure this is the best show to watch when you are 7 and a half months pregnant but I can't stop myself.

TheDailyWail · 25/02/2010 12:50

I have a lump in my throat thinking about this weeks episode. Especially about the little boy who was born with part of his bowel on the outside - he made a full recovery. I love a happy ending. Didn't she seem like a lovely girl?

BusyMissIzzy · 25/02/2010 13:10

Agree DailyWail, that first bit where the nurses offered to let her hold him but she was too scared/upset had me absolutely sobbing.

And I hope Darren and the husband from the 1st episode see themselves on TV and realise what complete twats they both were.

MillaBristol · 25/02/2010 13:39

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