Just address some of your points Pandora69:
?It is simply not always possible due to absolute lack of resources, and arguing for these resources to be made available to you during a very vulnerable few hours of your life may not be the best way of either getting what you want or making the NHS realise that they need to increase their resources in maternity care.?
If we don?t argue for it now, then when? Next year? The year after that? When a new government has been elected which is promising more funds to the NHS? If you want to bring about change, you have to be part of that change, not just acknowledge that the situation isn?t brilliant, but I?ll leave it up to someone else to change it. And, although I have been trying to be very impersonal about it throughout my posts, I think the one time you can try and make things better for yourself, if not for the wider group, it?s when you?re in the middle of having a baby and you want the best for that baby!
?I am struggling to understand just where these midwives are going to come from if you ring up and say 'send a midwife' and they reply 'we have none spare.'?
With the word ?spare?, you imply that the MWs that are in the pool available to all labouring women are actually allocated to hospital birthing women only, and that if there are any floating about not doing anything, then they are ?spare? and can go and attend the home birthing woman. This is not the case. The pool of MWs is for hospital and home birthers equally, and therefore if there are not enough MWs to attend all the women labouring in total at any one time, then (one could argue) that they have to draft in other MWs from other sources to cover the hospital birthing women as the on-call MWs are attending home birthers (rather than viewing it as having to draft in MWs to cover the home birthers, IYSWIM).
?by asking for 2 midwives to attend you you could well be taking 2 midwives away from a hospital-located MLU?.
As stated in other people?s posts above, this argument doesn?t really stand up, but for the moment let?s imagine that you are right. One could also argue that if a home-birther came to the hospital, ended up having pain relief or other interventions which she wouldn?t have needed at home, and suddenly monopolises the time of numerous doctors and MWs, anaesthetists, theatres and equipment, taking 36 hours instead of 8 to labour and deliver etc... this woman and her baby has now used up FAR more MWs, consultants and other staff, hospital resources and so forth, which could have been allocated to women who really needed the extra attention, which could have been avoided if the woman had been able to deliver at home.
?Should I get 'more' treatment because I pay more??
No, and no one has suggested, anywhere, on this thread that one should. We have stated that we should get EQUAL standards of care because we all pay into that pot (and even if we don?t pay, we should get the same standard of care as everyone else).
?If it is something you feel very strongly about, there are many more ways you can attempt to have a home birth, and indeed campaign for better use of maternity resources, than being a lone voice taking the name of the receptionist and making threats down a phone about what your family will do to them if they can't rustle up something which is physically not there at that time.?
I wanted a home birth for me, and by insisting on the MW being sent out, I did my small part in making sure the next person gets theirs too. I didn?t make threats, but I did say I wasn?t going to go in, and that was enough, that time. I hope it?s enough next time (or that my MW is on duty and I don?t have to argue at all!) I feel strongly enough about it to make sure I got my home birth, as more important to me than NHS policy and fund allocation and campaigning for better maternity resources on a wider scale, was the health, safety and well being of my baby, and that remains my number 1 priority now, and for the next baby I will give birth to in about 3 months!