Sorry slight hijack here...
Lucy in answer to your questions....I am fine, not sore and actually have healed better this time than any of the others the only problem I had was that I had horrendous headaches due to the spinal which could have been righted if I had wanted to go back into theatre, I didn't and chose to let it run it's course (about 8 weeks! looking back I should have sorted it and made a fuss).
My first 2 c-sections were emergencies, pre eclampsia, my 3,4 and 5th were all elective, I wasn't aware that it could have been possible for VBA2C.
Like yours my family were very worried and by the time no 5 was in bump form actually quite negative, but we went to see our consultant to get advice beforehand. He was brilliant went through everything that had gone on during my other sections plus all the risks, so I would strongly advise going to see a consultant before you make any decisions.
The pregnancy no.5 went really well, but I had alot of guilt feelings because at the end of the day I had 4 healthy children and was selfishly putting my feelings of one more first, during the pregnancy decided that I would be sterilised at the birth and this was my last baby, hard decision to make but by far the most sensible!
The choice to be sterilised would have been taken out of my hands if I had not previously made it, when the consultants performed the section they found that they could actually see baby through the wall of the uterus, we were very lucky.
I feel very blessed to have my children and of course it was worth all the worry.
You will get lots of negativity but if your consultant supports you and you are aware of the dangers it is you and your dp/dh's decision at the end of the day! Hope this helps and doesn't scare you.....good luck, if you want to chat further let me know!
Mummytopebs...Once again sorry for the hijack and 'me' post.