I often hear people saying that after a long but normal first birth, a second birth will be quicker as the body knows what to do. What I am interested in is how does the way the body behaved during the first labour affect subsequent labours if the first labour ended in caesarean?
I went into labour 8 days late but without intervention, and was in labour for 40 hours with first child, during which I dilated to 10cm. Baby was back-to-back, and did not turn. She also got very stuck behind my very full bladder, which I was not able to empty due to pressure from the baby on my urethra. (Might have been useful if the midwife had noticed this earlier .) I endured 4 hrs of unsuccessful second stage, before a failed ventouse then full crash c-section. Both daughter and I were very poorly for a while.
What I am curious to know is how the fact that I dilated fully naturally will stand me this time. Will my body be better prepared? or will it just be a fact that if I have argumentative huge headed babies who won't get into place when I tell them, I am just doomed? I am not averse to a well-planned elective section, but would much rather have a calm VBAC. FWIW I managed the whole shebang with nothing more than a TENS machine and a good visualization technique.