Am starting to think about conceiving dc3 and one of the big question-marks over the whole idea (at least for me) is how the baby is going to come out.
Briefly, both ds1 and ds2 were OP babies - ds2 did turn during labor but was very big. Anyway, although both were vaginal births, on both occasions they became distressed during 'pushing' and were delivered using forceps. I have no argument with this, and found neither birth particularly traumatic, but the residual damage/scarring to my pelvic floor is considerable and I really don't want a third forceps delivery for this reason (although of course if I found myself in the same position again I'd agree straight away cause would want them out safely asap).
So anyway, if I do go for no. 3, do you think I should consider asking for a c-section? And who could I discuss this with? I have to admit I'm not keen at all on the idea but neither am I keen on, say, incontinence, or more scar tissue.
With ds2 by the way I had a 1-1 midwife who was really great at keeping me mobile etc so I don't think there is anything more I could have done to avoid the forceps.