Last birth, I had a retained placenta. There were never any reasons given. But, this is what I recall.
DD was low birth weight. I needed ventouse intervention.
I recall having injection in thigh, but cannot remember when this happened, DH thinks this was after the birth.
The cord was pulled by a midwife, and it snapped. I do not know exactly when this happened, but it was cut straight away after birth, and it is my understanding that this is normal with a managed third stage.
(I do not know why I had a managed third stage, did not ask for one).
DH and best friend who was present said that when the cord snapped, something was mentioned about it being weak, and we had alway thought this was why it snapped, rather that it should not have been pulled? .
Anyway, placenta was not deliver. They attempted to inject oxytocin I beleive into my veins, but were unable to do this successfully, this was not immediate.
I had a spinal tap and manual removal of placenta several hours after birth, resulting in the placenta breaking up and having to be fished out bit by bit [ouch].
So that is the background.
I would like to ask for a physiological third stage this time, but have read that this should not be considered if retained placenta occured in previously pg, due to risk of heavy blood loss and it occuring again.
But, I do not beleive that the retained placenta was a natural occurance, but rather somthing related to something dont immediately after birth.
Should I consider this? What do I need to think about? I do not want to put myself in danger, but also, I do not want to put myself at risk of another retained placenta if it was the fault of the medical team, not my body?
Can anyone shed some light on this? Can I demand one? Should I demand one if it what I want? Should I just accept a managed third stage?