Funtime,
my DD was born at 29 weeks (with no warning). She had a GBS infection at birth and was too small to breathe, so was initially ventilated, given steroids, then given oxygen through a mask etc... Was not fun, but she is now an unstoppable 15 mths old - so all's well.
In general terms:
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Prem babies go to the special care unit. However, at 32 weeks your baby would be much bigger than most babies there (my baby was less than 3lb and was huge comparing to most!!!).
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Babies born after 32 weeks tend to have fewer problems breathing as they are older, so although your baby is likely to be in an incubator initially, they do come out of it pretty soon (my DD was out of the incubator into a cot at 33 weeks).
3)neonatal Staff will tell you that babies tend to come home from special care unit around their EDD. But that depends on hospital policy as well - at my hospital most prems went home around 35-36 weeks or when able to wake up for feeding (weight was deemed to be largely irrelevant as long it was going the right way)
4)At 32 weeks, there is a chance that baby will not be able to breastfeed/take a bottle yet (at least not around the clock). In which case he/she will be fed through a naso-gastric tube; you will be asked if you want to express milk for him/her. However, most babies can start feeding form breast/bottle at 34 weeks, and it is a good idea to put her to the breast soonish if you want to breastfeed.
5)Even if baby is in hospital, you will be able to care for him/her; staff will teach you to feed, administer vitamins or meds if required, change whilst in the incubator or cot, bathe whatever. If you can stay in the hospital then I would recommend it as it makes it easier to be with her.
6)Your baby may be initially attached to monitors (BP, oxygen levels etc). As your baby gets bigger the monitors will be slowly taken off - they are really annoying anyway as they ping all the time when nothing's wrong. Argh
I would deffo visit a neonatal unit so you know what it looks like. We were in there for 8 wks and the vast majority of babies were absolutely fine - just needed a bit of specialist care at the beginning, and then they just had to learn to feed (prems can sleep 20 hours a day!). May I add that the level of care we received was great - the ratio of staff was 1 nurse to 2 babies.
If you have any questions just let us know and good luck with the appt!