Hi, I had a 16 hour labour and then crash CS under GA (because I had stupidly decided on gas and air only and so had no other option when it was needed). I totally agree with Portofino, the thing I really had a problem with is the fact that I wasnt convinced this was my baby (also because baby is mixed race, but at birth was whiter than my irish whiteness...now making up for it) and that DH wasnt a. there for the birth or b. with me when he first held her.
When I found out DD had the cord wrapped round her neck, was swallowing meconium (sp?) and heartbeat could not be found I was traumatised! But more so when we were rushed into theatre DH was allowed in and then the last thing I remember hearing was him being told to leave immediately
In terms of feeding, I found it difficult for the first few days, and I think, as with vaginal birth, much depends on the midwives (I had to stop at a couple of weeks due to complications with DD, but nothing to do with CS - I was advised though that sometimes CSs slow down your milk coming in). I was in for 3 nights, 1 night was great, 2 were terrible as I was in a room on my own and could barely lift DD up on my own, but midwives took AGES to come in and so I felt I had to. I remember on night 3 getting up to her at 4am after waiting nearly ten minutes for a midwife and not knowing whether I was going to pass out or drop her from the pain. Having said that, as soon as I got home and started moving around in a place i felt confident and surrounded by people things got better much much more quickly. By day 6 I was in mothercare and driving just pre 6 weeks, when I felt back to normal.
Now at about 5 months I get the odd twinge but nothing major. In the first few weeks I do think not really "being there" when DD was born affected my relationship with her, because I allowed it to. At 5 months it certainly doesnt.
I know that all sounds a bit mixed and probably not what you were hoping for...sorry. BUT at the end of the day, I have my fab DD and so it was all worth it!