Next week I'm scheduled to spend an hour with my midwife discussing plans for the birth of my fifth child, due in October. (I bet I'm out in 15 minutes or less.) Hopefully it'll be a VBAC, but I'm not worried about that and I don't have any questions about the labour that ended up in caesarean, that's all fine.
I do have a worry about my first two, completely straightforward labours, in which I had constant, serious pain between contractions. I don't know if I even explained during the labours that I was experiencing this, because it wasn't until my third (induced, with twins) labour that I had something to compare them with and realised the books weren't just lying!
I want this labour to be more like the third than the first or second, but how?
I had constant monitoring and was stuck on a bed for all three labours, so the only differences were
a) the presence of 2 babies (nothing I can do about that!)
b) being induced with a drip (not possible with VBAC).
Having read on this site about some odd and just plain wrong things midwives have said, I don't have confidence that my particular midwife will know anything about this. Did you have constant pain? Were you able to prevent it in a subsequent labour and if so, how? Any midwives who know what causes it?
Answers would be very gratefully received.