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urgent advice: drs want to induce today...

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mama2leah · 05/08/2009 13:25

i dont know what to do..
reduce growth to a/c for the past few weeks, and the doppler and diastolic flow is normal but RI above 95 centile for gestational age..said if i dont get induce today will have a still born.

im 39+2

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FabBakerGirlIsBack · 05/08/2009 18:25

Is true.

My son had a different problem but he was on his way

treedelivery · 05/08/2009 18:35

FabBaker - what, on his way to needing to be born? I don't know your story, but know your name very well. I don't want to be missing something really important and vital about you iyswim??

Good luck mama2 - whenever it is I guess there will be an announcement soon. Good luck!

LynetteScavo · 05/08/2009 18:35

What are your reservations about being induced, mama2leah?

dontwantbigholeinfinances · 05/08/2009 18:37

I hope all is going well with your induction - but if you are still at home reading this then just go to hospital now! It is possible to have a good induction - no such thing as a good still birth.

CarGirl · 05/08/2009 18:38

read her other thread, she was due to go back at 6.30pm for induction so hopefully she's there and it's about to get underway.

FabBakerGirlIsBack · 05/08/2009 18:40

Treedelivery I meant he was on his way to not surviving for much longer.

LuluMaman · 05/08/2009 18:40

from my experience in maternity services, they don;t tend to rush you into induction on a whim and they don't bandy around still birth as a way to get you in

it sounds like your baby would be better delivered than in utero and i wish you all the best

at 39 + 2 you are full term and hopefully induction won't to be too long and drawn out

FabBakerGirlIsBack · 05/08/2009 18:41

I have been looking for you Lulu to get your advice on this.

Hope all is well, mama

LuluMaman · 05/08/2009 18:47

i've not long got in from work

LuluMaman · 05/08/2009 18:48

there's been lots of excellent advice anyway

treedelivery · 05/08/2009 18:52

Oh shit FabBaker. Scary stuff sometimes.

Agree with Lulu, although as 'staff' I am mindfull of being biased on this. I honestly haven't experienced anyone using the word 'stilbirth' except where they have felt they had to.

There is also the labour to consider - the baby has to labour too. A stressed declining placenta will be less effective at supplying oxygen during contractions, and at recovering quickly in between. That can lead to a stressed baby in labour, regardless of how the labour is progressing in terms of the cervix and the contractions etc.

Hope you are being well looked after, will keep an eye out for your news.

GreenMonkies · 05/08/2009 21:00

3littlefrogs I don't know if this is what the Drs are doing in this case, I was not sure what she was talking about at first, and only have a basic grasp of it now. And from what I understand then yes, in this case rapid delivery does sound like the best option.

But, I have known Dr's talk crap, and allow women to make decisions without understanding the situation fully, ie, not giving real informed constent. I have known inductions to be inflicted on women who don't need them, and for Dr's to bullshit and ignore direct instructions from their patients just because they want to finish a job before they go off shift.

I was not saying to ignore the advice of the Dr's, just to keep asking questions until you are happy you understand what the problem is, what the options are and what possible outcomes and risks are. That is informed consent, something that every patient, in every area of the NHS should be able to give, and has a right to. Sadly not all healthcare professionals give their patients the kind of clear information and many patients are still unsure of their options and rights. "Why?" is a question most Dr's dislike, but one that more patients should be asking.

FabBakerGirlIsBack · 05/08/2009 21:09

I also know of a consultant who refused to listen to the mother and the baby was born dead.

mama2leah · 09/08/2009 14:57

quickly...
gal born friday 5lbs15...natural n very fast..i refused further induction after the gel...was 4 hours... from 6cm dilated to breathing her out in 5 mins....was QUICK!

happy days

x

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juuule · 09/08/2009 17:12

Congratulations

MmeLindt · 10/08/2009 09:10

Congratulations, glad to hear everything went well (if incredibly fast!)

LeninGrad · 10/08/2009 09:17

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treedelivery · 10/08/2009 11:03

YAY!

Brilliant!

edam · 10/08/2009 11:11

Lovely news!

Deeeja · 10/08/2009 11:45

Congratulations!
Your thread made me cry, fantastic news!

mama2leah · 11/08/2009 14:38

my birth story...
well i went to the doctors on wednesday for routine check up, as soon as i entered her room she started speaking of induction, which i wasnt keen for..i then said i wanted it proved that i need induction, so was sent for various scans, results showed small growth and placenta working to hard. advice for induction asap, i said no and i came home to think what i wanted, wrote on mumsnet..and made a decision that il go with it..went back to hospital to be sent back home at 2am..and return at 8 am. i returned was talked through induction and had a 24 hour gel put in... i walked, bounced, rested, pottered around nothing... friday 3am i woke up, bored and i though i need to bounce and walk because they are going to re-assess my condition at 11... well i bounced on the ball for 30 mins, and laid down..i started feeling a tummy ache..and thought has my labour started...
doctor came at 10 am, ctg showing irregular contraction, and i said to her i am in labour, this is what happened with dd, she didnt believe me and said my face says im not in labour ( silly moo) i said to her i dont want my waters broken, she said nothing they can do, i asked how far dilated can i be before u wont break my waters she said anything more then 4cm..so i went walking, bouncing... come 11:30 i was 4cm dilated wooohoo!
i had a brilliant midwife, who i told i wasnt keen on intervention and i wanted a natural birth...she supported me, and didnt really understand why induce me for a small baby judging by my size.
from 11:30 then she checked me, she done a sweep ( whcih was beter then having my waters broken) and then i started getting contraction every 2 mins, stronger and longer... by 1:30 i knew i was in labour, still not that painful, i threw up...and got moved to delivery suite at 2:30...while midwife preparing the room, and i was just laughing with her, dh went to get something...he left my waters broke i was in shock and laughing, midwife checked said i was only 6 cm and said my dh should return quick or he will miss birth, and which point i said he is bloody never around wen u need him! lol as he walked into the room, i had the urge to push ( 2mins later) i panicked thinking im only 6cm, midwife said breath out, i breathed and she was born! i was in shock, 3 puffs of gas and air, it didnt even kick in!!!!
the doctor was horrible, and patronising, my midwife was amazing, supportive, encouraging and gave me the best birth experience from my worse nightmare...

labour 4 hours total!

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mumsiebumsie · 11/08/2009 15:51

Wonderful result!

Have a wonderful time with your new baby.

3littlefrogs · 11/08/2009 16:34

Well done! Congratulations. So pleased everything worked out ok.

mermalaid · 11/08/2009 22:09

Happy Day! Congrats, well done and here's to a long healthy and happy future for you both! x

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