dd1 - forceps at 39 weeks
dd2 - emergency c-section at 35 weeks, not in labour.
Me - 33 weeks with dd3. Throughout the pregnancy I have been told that I would have to have another c-section so had kind of given up hope. However dd2 is disabled (due to birth cock-up)and there is no way I can recover from a section whilst having to lift a disabled 3 year old all day long. Besides I found recovery from the section crap generally and would like to have a chance at a VBAC.
Anyway.. finally saw the consultant yesterday rather than one of his possie of registrars, explained the situation and he is happy for me to try for a VBAC . I am so happy that he listened to me, he reckons I have about a 70% chance of success. However there are things that I know will make it more difficult...
As I had a previous Emergency section I have to give birth in the high risk unit with continual fetal monitoring. Last time I had this with dd1 every time I tried to move they lost the trace and I ended up having to stay lying on my back in bed which meant I couldn't cope with the pain and ended up with an epidural and forceps etc etc.
Do you think I have any chance of arguing to not have continuous fetal monitoring? Also if I do end down that route would they be likely to attempt something like forceps or would they just go straight to a caesarian. I would much rather recover from an episiostomy than a caesarian any day.
What else do I need to know / ask for? Do I need a specific vbac birth plan?
I'm so excited now but have no real idea about any of it as I really had given up hope of even getting to have a go at a VBAC. .
Any help appreciated.