I am 39.5 weeks pregnant with my first baby. Due to a long-standing back problem and a damaged disc in my lower back (L5 disc), and following the advice of two orthopaedic surgeons, I have the option of giving birth by C-section and am booked for it on Thursday morning (19th May). I am not necessarily keen to do this but initially thought it best to take care of my back and thought a C-section wouldn't be so bad this time round, and that I had a good chance of successfully giving birth vaginally next time round if I strengthen my back sufficiently in between babies.
However the statistics of successfully delivering vaginally after an elective C are apparently only 30/40% in my favour. The obstetrician and the midwives all seem to be of the opinion that whilst it's not impossible to give birth vaginally after an elective C, it's very unlikely I'd succeed. This is because my body will not have experienced any kind of labour first time round and will therefore be under a lot of pressure second time round as it'll be like a first birth, and there's a risk that the scar could rupture and the baby could become distressed.
I don't want to damage my back; but I don't want to condemn myself to C-sections from now on whenever I have children, as I really want to experience vaginal birth. I'm not saying C-sections are always bad at all, it's just from my POV I'd like to try it naturally. If I don't, I may never know if I could.
Has anyone else experienced birth with disc problems in their back, and also has anyone experienced VBAC after a first-time elective C?
Many thanks, and sorry for the long essay!