Sorry this is all tmi. I had an examination by my gp a few months back after saying I was suffering from some incontinence problems. While she was down there I asked if it all looked ok as the pushing stage of having my first dc had been pretty fast and furious.
I do realise it's not going to be exactly the same after birth but it feels and looks as if the inner walls are bulging in on themselves slightly and the cervix is lower than before which makes sex painful sometimes.
Anyway she bvriefly had a look and said "you're a bit saggy down there but it's to be expected" (lovely!) But the thought persists that it might be the start of a prolapse. My mum had one although I don't know any details at all. I'm worried that it will get worse after any subsequent vaginal births, as will my slight incontinence.
I have been wondering whether it would be safer all round to ask for an elective cs for the next one as I only want one more dc. Any thoughts or experience of this?