I have had one emergency caesarian and my second caesarian was elective. I really regret the elective one now and wish I had gone for a trial of labour. Scar took ages to heal and sometimes still hurts when i turn over in bed unless i tense all my stomach muscles first!
Anyway i'm pregnant again and the thought of a third c section terrifies me. I may be being irrational but can't bear the thought of being sliced open by some butcher again. And then there is all the healing... (sorry if you are planning a c section - I know lots of people have good experiences of caesarians!).
Should i try for a VBAC? would the problems with my scar increase the risk of rupture?
Anyone any ideas?