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Should I consider a homebirth this time around?

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duchesse · 02/03/2009 09:06

I had two utterly uneventful and lovely homebirths 14 and 11.5 years ago. At the time, we lived less than 10 minutes from the hospital and I was in my late 20s.

This time around, we live in rural Devon, about 20 minutes from the nearest large hospital, and I am now 41.

Our hospital is having a midwive unit built that should be finished by the time this one is born, and that includes three birthing pools. Am quite fancying the idea of a water birth...

What I wanted to know is this: Are there any extra risks associated with increased age that would be more likely picked up in hospital during labour? Or am I just as likely to have a perfectly uneventful birth as I was in my 20s?

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ByThePowerOfGreyskull · 02/03/2009 09:14

ooh have a lovely homebirth again..
can't explain it but if you have done it twice before then do it again

Tangle · 02/03/2009 10:46

The homebirth site is usually pretty well researched and this page about older mums seems to say there isn't really enough evidence to decide one way or the other.

Have a dig around and maybe post on the homebirthUK mailgroup - there are some MWs active on there at the moment that would be able to give you an opinion based on a LOT of practical experience of HB.

But my gut feel would be to HB again unless something crops up

duchesse · 02/03/2009 19:15

Thanks ladies! That homebirth site is good, Tangle. Thanks. Loads of positive elderly codger birth stories too.

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Loopymumsy · 03/03/2009 13:09

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duchesse · 05/03/2009 10:08

loopy- do you live over towards Dartmoor?

My midwife's face fell when I said I quite fancied using the midwife unit at hospital. I think she's keen on home births. I may well reconsider, always assuming that our house is not filled with builders in August!

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duchesse · 06/03/2009 09:56

loopy- forgot to mention there are plans for an Exeter area meet-up that you might be interested in: here.

I probably won't go this time because I don't "know" any of those ladies, but you might.

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