DD is 18 months old, she was born at home, unassisted, long but straightforward labour. Placenta wouldn't budge, tried for two hours without injection, then had injection, still wouldn't budge. Ended up in ambulance to hospital where I was put on drip for hours while prepped for theatre, until an anaesthetist became available, but actually the placenta was manually removed in delivery room - not theatre - with gas & air only. DH seems to remember the doctor who pulled out placenta saying, "oh, it's just here" ie didn't really need much pulling to remove. I only had two drags on G&A and it was out. Home within a couple of hours.
Am now 12 weeks pregnant with DC2, had booking-in with mw this week, she said it would be "best practice" for me to have DC2 at MLU in case of repeat placenta problems, to avoid risk of huge blood loss etc. She said it would be best to have canula fitted as a precaution in labour so that in case of same problem I could be hooked up to a drip quickly.
She kept telling me how lovely the MLU is, hands-off, dark, cosy, calm etc but I REALLY want to be at home, I hate hospitals and the first birth went so well (despite eventual transfer).
My own theory for long second stage and problems with placenta last time are that I couldn't pee for love nor money in labour. After DD was born they cathetised me and LOTS of pee came out. So I suspect full bladder was big part of the problem.
Anyway, sorry this is long, I'd love to hear your experiences of this kind of thing. I have six months to decide and I will ask to see a copy of my notes from last time asap. Thanks