I've probably bored everyone on here to bits with the sorry state of my bits after DD1's delivery - and then all the stress of being pregnant and delivering DD2. I had a huge episiotomy with DD1 which healed very badly - to the extent that I was in pain if I sat down for too long even 6 months after. I had a 2nd degree tear with DD2 which healed in a ridge. The teratment after DD1 was awful, the treatment after DD2 was much better with a sympathetic gynae who gave me cortisone injections.
Anyway...
It's less than 4 months after DD2's birth and I've only had 2 sets of cortisone injections, and last night I mananged to have the first sex for a year, and the first pain-free sex for over two years. I feel like leaping around the high street singing! I will constrain myself to boasting on MN though. It was spontaneous, and afterwards I was so emotional and just plain relieved that I burst into tears.