Hi all
I am 30wks pg with DC3 so the midwives think I am an old hand at this but my boys are 8 and 10 1/2. So I would like to think that things have moved on a bit from then.
For my first delivery I was admitted for obs after about 12 hours from the start of labour and stayed overnight on the ward until things really kicked off the next day. I had a Meptid injection in my thigh and then gas and air until it was over. He was born just after 8pm with the help of ventouse and epipitiostomy (eek sp) as he was having difficulty and I am still not sure but I believe he was back to back.
With my second it was all much more straight forward, I woke up with labour pains in the early hours of the morning and waited until late afternoon to go in, but they sent me home as they stopped when I got there, they were even worse when I got home so I went back again, they stopped again so they sent me home again. So I was worried I was wasting their time . I finally went back in again just before 11pm and the midwives eventually said I could stay but they had no staff and did not expect him to be born for many hours yet and that I would have been more comfortable at home, that I was to try to sleep through the night ready for the following afternoon. DS2 was born at ten to midnight that night, there was only time for gas and air that time and I had no interventions.
OM word I didnt mean to go on so much
But is Meptid still used? I never liked the sound of pethadine but people talk about it all the time so obviously that is.
Has the midwife situation changed much in 8 years? As I believe that them being short staffed was the reason I was sent home so many times with my second and would have been sent home the last time but I absolutly refused to go.
Oh and 3rd births. How do they compare to the first two, does your pain threshold change as you get older? Is it different because you are older and wiser?
Thanks for getting this far
I have modified the thread title every time I have thought of something else, so I think it covers everything.