Sorry this is going to be fairly long as I get my thoughts in order...
I'm 34 weeks with DC3. DS was a natural birth, back to back so very painful and had an epidural but pushed him out with no assistance aside from a little snip. He was born at 41 weeks and was 8lbs 7.
DD was undiagnosed footling breech which was spotted when I was heading into transition (had only just got into labour ward - everything went very quickly) and necessitated a crash section with general anaesthetic. She weighed in at a whopping 10lbs 5 and according to several midwives and doctors, did me a favour by being breech as they reckon I'd never have got her out naturally (I'm only 5ft 2 and not of very big build). Again, she decided to appear at 41 weeks.
Anyway, fastforward to DC3 and whether to attempt a VBAC or not. I have been diagnosed with gestational diabetes this time and am on insulin 3 times a day for this as I have been unable to control it with diet alone. I understand that I would be on some sort of insulin drip to control my blood sugars throughout labour and, due to the prior c-section, baby would be monitored as well. Also, I would likely be offered induction at 38-39 weeks but I don't think induction is particularly conducive to a successful VBAC.
The Diabetes Midwife I saw last week is keen that I try a VBAC but I don't see the consultant or have a scan for another couple of weeks. Last time I saw her she made a comment about the risk factors mounting, and having done a bit of reading now, I kind of get what she's saying. Baby is looking to be just over 8lb at 38 weeks according to scans but I know there's at least a 15% margin of error.
Previously I was worried about the possibility of shoulder distocia but now I'm starting to think about the potential of uterine rupture as I know that this is more likely with an induction.
My main reason for thinking of attempting a VBAC is obviously to minimise recovery time, having a 5 year old and a 2 year old to deal with. I don't have a problem with the thought of having another section as I recovered very well last time - it's just the inability to drive etc that's worrying me.
Does anyone have any experience with the above combination of insulin-dependent GDM combined with induction and VBAC?
All thoughts and advice gratefully received as this is starting to keep me awake at night now trying to figure out what to do.