Hi there, I had one natural and one induced delivery. I love both for different reasons. DS felt out of control and I felt misunderstood, it was fast and prompt. DD i felt in control and completely understood but found it much more painful. I would very much like to add here that DS was not induced and was 7lbs dd was induced and was 10lbs so there could lie the difference with the pain issue! i didn't have epidurals either time.
-do I have to be continuously monitored? (I know that there are different stages and that I may not need a drip - at what stage do they insist on monitoring)
I only had pessary, so no I was not continiously monitored. In early stages i went to city centre shopping. In later stages I did not want to move for toffee.
- do they always break the waters or if you are progessing after the gel/pessary do they just run with it?
I have my waters broken. To me it was just what they did. i went from 2 - 3 cms in about 8hrs, with the pessary and from 3 - baby in 2.5 hrs with my waters broken. For me anyhow it was very much a part of the induction that was necessary and meant I did not have the drip.
-will I have to be on my back? Can monitoring be done on my side or all fours?
I was told to get on all fours at one point. I can't remember why. So yes I think monitoring can be done on all fours if required.
-will I have to have a line in my hand or can I refuse that up to the point at which they think I do actually need a drip if it happens?
I was not cannulated at any point in my induction. IME in most young healthy child bearing age women, especially those mid labour, hot bothered and most likely with raised blood pressure cannulation would not be a problem!!
-do you generally need a catheter if you have an epidural?
IME as a nurse yes a catheter is required if you have an epidural although the type I work with are different, catheters are useful as there is a lack of sensation to the lower part of the body and also to monitor urine output as the epidural can cause urine output to drop.
- do you have to stay in hospital longer after an induction or if things go smoothly could I be home after a few hours (assuming I feel up to it!)
After my natural labour I went home 17hrs later. After my induction I went home 17hrs later - both times would have been sooner but had to wait for anti d.
Hope all this is helpful. I wouldn't change a thing about my DD's birth and I was planning a home birth so about as far away removed from that before a c section!! Good luck.