Am pg with number 2 and not sure if im wanting a home birth or birth centre (providing everything goes ok of course). At a home birth what do you actually need? Obviously towels, but how many. Also where did you actually give birth? I like the idea of giving birth in water but worried about needing stitches as they wait for your bits to dry off before they do it all (ive been told) and i think thats horrible, i had it all done straight away after ds was born but my sister says they waited over an hour for her stitches and she said it was awful as at that point your getting over the birth and enjoying new baby.
If you do have a birthing pool what are the general circumference? Also do you fill it up with a hose pipe? And how do you empty it??
Just trying to decide one way or the other and its worrying me already and i have a long way left and feel silly worrying about it now...