Hi
Just been reading all these posts and felt the need to register and reply.
I gave birth to my first son in August this year. After a great pregnancy I went two weeks overdue and was booked in to be induced on the monday. On the sunday night my waters broke but still no sign. I was given the gel twice (8 hours apart) and still nothing!!
Later that night I was put on a drip to start the contractions and sure enough they started! Pain was so bad that I opted for an epidural.
The labour lasted 37 hours and after being fully dilated at 27 hours I was left a further 10 hours.
It was obvious to me that there must have been a reason why he wasn't moving down the birth canal but, having never heard of shoulder dystocia and having faith in the medical staff I was not too concerned.
After 27 hours a female consultant came in and said to the midwife to prepare for a c-section as there was no chance he was moving down.
Several hours later a male consultant came in and said he would like to take me down to the operating theatre and attempt the delivery and if he fails we will be in the right place for c-section.
Tired and fed up I agreed and was prepared for theatre. With hindsight I should have just asked for a c-section there and then but doctor knows best!
Once in the operating theatre I started to sense things were not going as planned. My legs were lifted up and pressure was applied to my stomach in what can only be described as a barbaric way - one doctor had her hands on my stomach and her feet off the floor!!! This didn't work and several other maneouvres were carried out including woodscrew.
Finally, my son was born but taken straight to the other side of the room where they had to assist him with his breathing.
I didn't see him until that night, about 8 hours later and was extremely worried as his head had been out for just over 5 mins before they delivered the rest of him.
He ended up in SCBU for 3 days and had slight erbs palsy which is thankfully better now. He still has a small scar and a lump on his eye where he was pulled down the birth canal.
I had a massive heammorage and was very sore down below for quite a while.
The doctor told me what happened about 5 mins after it but I was still in shock and didn't take it in....is this classed as a de-brief?
I am due to go back to work in Jan after only 6 months but I feel like I don't want to leave him so soon and I wonder whether this is because the experience?
Finally, the whole experience has put me off ever having any more children and I wonder if anyone else felt like this but got over it in time?