Hello OP, I just wanted to say I completely understand why you’re feeling worried those concerns about dignity are so valid. I spent a lot of time feeling anxious about the same thing before my own C-section. In the end, I realised I had built it up much more in my head than it actually felt in reality.
If you’re having an elective, everything is very calm and organised. You’ll be given a gown and stockings, and your birth partner will get changed too. The theatre team are usually very kind and will introduce themselves, which really helps ease the nerves. The room can feel a bit cold, but they’ll do their best to keep you comfortable.
You’ll have the spinal anaesthetic while sitting up, and once it’s in, you’ll lie down and they’ll place a screen across your midsection so you can’t see anything. Your birth partner will be right beside you, usually holding your hand and supporting you the whole time.
You’ll have an IV in your hand for fluids and medications, and your blood pressure will be monitored throughout. Once you’re numb, a catheter is placed but you genuinely won’t feel this because of the anaesthetic, and it’s done very discreetly by one member of the team.
From that point on, the focus really shifts to welcoming your baby. The atmosphere is usually calm, and the team will talk you through what’s happening while they deliver your baby. It can actually feel quite special and emotional.
I know it’s easier said than done, but try not to let the worries about dignity take over! The team are very used to supporting people through this, and they really do their best to respect your privacy at every step.
Wishing you all the best you’ll be in safe hands x