Thanks binsky - you may be a lone voice on here though
I can give a brief background as to how I started to use homeopathy. I grew up very conventionally- never used any CAM at all. Until my back went in my early 20's and I started seeing a chiropractor (as well as having some physio).
That was about it until my early 30's. By that time we knew that ds1 was likely to be diagnosed as autistic. He has what I call a 'biomedical' type of autism- in that it was probably environmentally triggered (won't go into that here) and that he has a physiology that deals with things differently from expected. This is quite common in autism- so friend's kids have had to return for operations at later dates because sedatives made them hyper etc, or other research at Birmingham uni has shown that for some autistic children paracetamol is not metabolised in a normal fashion etc. Basically there is a group with autism who appear to have all sorts of metabolic differences (may be one probelm causing cascade effects). Anyway ds1 had had a lot of conventional drugs by the time he was 2 - partly because of repeated infections and partly because of some nasty things he caught.
It got to a stage where I felt we needed to explore a different approach. I bought a 'natural family health guide' and went through it- it pretty much covered everything. There was some basic info about homeopathy and I bought a basic kit.
Fast forward ds2 was born. Ds1 would not sleep (having been a very good sleeper). At bed time he would stand and scream for 5 hours (literally) then would fall asleep exhausted and wake up 2 hours later screaming again. He was distraught. After 2 weeks I was distraught as well. (Especially as ds2 was ill as well). I picked up my natural health guide o lok up some aromaptherapy that I thought relax him. And instead stuumbled across an autism entry which gave some homeopathic suggestions. I picked one that fitted him and gave it to ds1 at lunch time.
That night he went to bed straight away with no screaming. Erm coincidence I thought. Anyway he woke up in the night screaming again.
I'd read in the book that you give the minimum so the next day I didn't give anything. Bed time again. Screaming the place down. So I gave one. He did his screaming until midnight routine then fell asleep but slept all night and didn't wake.
So the next day I gave one at lunch time and one at bedtime. He went to bed straight away and slept all night.
So I was left with a situation where I didn't really quite believe what I had seen. But to be honest I didn't really care. In ds1 I had a child who I didn't feel comfortable giving any conventional medication to unless he really desperately needed it. He had apparently responded to something I didn't believe in and in a very dramatic way.
So my thought process was that I didn't understand how it could possibly have worked, but with the exception of leg about to drop off scenarios it was probably worth another try if something arose in the future.
So I tried it again - and it's continued to work for us with results that make it worth using again. And a big one for me - it hasn't actually damaged any of my children (ds1 is non-verbal aged 9 - which we think was related to conventional medicine- obviously with genetic predisposition).
That was rather long. And I'm aware that I've opened myself to ridicule. And no doubt someone will provide it But recently I was talking with someone who works in Health Psychology and he said that people have always used what works best for them. That's how medicine evolves and how a new method usurps an old. (It's how conventional got bigger than homeopathy - it saves more lives- I don';t think anyone would deny that). And for our family using homeopathy at times when conventional medicine can't offer us anything has improved our health. So we continue to use it.
I'm hoping to get ds1 some shiatsu soon as well- as he craves deep pressure. I have found someone who has worked with severely autistic kids (which in actually the most important factor) and I hope he will be able to benefit from it.
Ds1's issues and difficulties with conventional medicine has meant we've had to take a different approach. And for us it has worked.