my first was a natural labour at 39+1 - waters broke at 11pm at 39 weeks and DD was born 10.30am at 39+1
second was footling breach so planned section at 39 weeks - 3.5 years after first birth
pregnant with 3rd now, there will be 22 months between births. One consultant had aggressively recommended a section due to risks with the scar tissue separating. Second consultant and community midwife see no current issues with a vbac if things stay how they are now as no high risk factors
ive got another appointment with the consultant booked in for 34 weeks, the midwife has said this is to review the scar itself and see if vbac will be possible (I’ve no idea how they check this or if it’s just a general discussion so any advice on this appointment would be helpful)
Luckily I recovered well both from the natural birth and the section so currently have no preferences and need some advice
of course worst case scenario is trying for a vbac and ending up with an emergency section, as I know the recovery will be far worse than a planned section
I've had advices to have a section booked in for 40 weeks and see if I go naturally before hand as it’s easier to cancel a section than book one late
I’ve also had advice saying as it’s my third and I’ve had a natural labour before i am more likely to be successful with a vbac
I have no idea what is for the best, in an ideal world I’d go into labour naturally and it would all be as simple as it can but the thought of being induced or ending up with an emergency section gives me the fear!
does anyone have any advice or have been in a similar situation? It seems most threads are about vbac after multiple sections, or sections due to failure to progress and I just can’t get my head round what would work out best
thank you for reading!