Hi everyone,
I’m hoping to connect with anyone who may have experienced something similar during childbirth.
During the birth of my first DC, I had an episiotomy — and the moment they made the cut, I started bleeding very heavily. The doctors later explained that they had unknowingly cut into an atypical blood vessel — one that wasn’t meant to be there and hadn’t been picked up in scans. It caused a significant haemorrhage before my DC was even born, which they told me is classed as an intrapartum haemorrhage (rather than postpartum), and it made the delivery quite traumatic.
I’ve been told I’ll be under obstetrician-led care next time, but I still feel really anxious as I start thinking about having another DC. I’m trying to understand what kind of care or options others were offered if they had unusual bleeding during birth — especially if it involved a vascular injury or complications from an episiotomy.
If you’ve had anything similar happen, I’d be so grateful to hear your story. Did your care plan change in future pregnancies? Were you given a choice about the birth plan? Did you feel supported?
Thanks so much in advance 💛