Hello,
I had my baby last month and had a quite traumatic birth experience. I am wondering if anybody on here has had something similar and also wondering how common this really is.
Long story short, I had to have a emergency C-section following over 20 hours of induced labour. I had had an epidural fitted during the night which was working wonders. I got into surgery and they topped it up until I couldn't feel anything.
Then they began surgery. The first issue was during the initial incision I felt what was initially like a scratch along my stomach followed by a very sharp pain. I made them aware at this point that I could feel the epidural was increased and they were happy to proceed.
The C-section was going well. I only felt the typical tugging that other people describe and then all of a sudden it went very very sharp. I told them the surgery was paused and I was basically left wide open whilst they put me under anaesthesia. This process wasn't instant and the pain I felt of basically being wide open and what they had done really hurt. Unfortunately they only had one more incision to make which was my uterus so I was extremely close to being able to meet my son being born, but this was taken away.
I do want another child but I now feel scared of having a C-section. The pain of the surgery was one thing, but knowing that my son was born and I wasn't there for him for quite a while, really hits an emotional pain I was never prepared to have as I had a major hemorrhage on top of the anaesthesia. It was a long time until I could even focus my eyes on my son and that hurts.
Did anyone else have a similar experience to any of these aspects? And does anybody know how common a child birth like this actually is?
Thank you very much for taking the time to read this.