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16 day old wake window is nil now

17 replies

Samkhere · 07/12/2024 10:07

Until day 15 ds used to stay awake atleast 45 minutes in the day( sometimes at night too) . He doesn't seem to wake up anymore now. He does wriggle when it's feed time but not awake. I'm concerned.

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BananaSpanner · 07/12/2024 10:08

Is he a prem baby? I would check with your HV.

WonderingWanda · 07/12/2024 10:12

Is he feeding? Any crying? Still having wet nappies? At this many days under care of the midwife so I would contact them urgently if he isn't feeding or having wet nappies.

cestlavielife · 07/12/2024 10:14

It s a change. Seek advice today. He is tiny baby.
Some metabolic conditions only become apparent after some days.

Lougle · 07/12/2024 10:15

I would want someone to see him if he isn't waking up at all. Wriggling at feed time isn't the same as being awake. Does he open his eyes?

romdowa · 07/12/2024 10:15

You need to take your baby to be seen today. It's not normal that baby is asleep all the time.

NobleWashedLinen · 07/12/2024 10:27

Trust your instincts and if something feels wrong it is totally ok to make a pain of yourself and insist on getting seen by a sufficiently experienced health professional. Heath visitors don't always spot red-flag warning symptoms. Even if you end up having to go to A&E, absolutely nobody minds erring on the sude of caution when it comes to a tiny baby. Any doctor would agree they would rather be forced to see 10 babies that are perfectly healthy than have one mum with a genuinely poorly baby feel that she can't make a fuss.

TheChosenTwo · 07/12/2024 10:29

Get him checked out.
Is he having feeds and wet nappies?
best of luck.

user1492757084 · 07/12/2024 10:33

If you are concerned, as you are, seek medical advice for baby a.s.a.p. Babies' health can change quickly.

INeedNewShoes · 07/12/2024 10:34

Please go and see a doctor today or call the postnatal ward for advice.

Trust your instincts.

Sistertwo · 07/12/2024 10:36

I had 4, and my 37 week baby was sleepier than my 40 and 41 weekers, but they all always had wakeful periods. I would seek medical advice today.

YSianiFlewog · 07/12/2024 10:37

Is he breastfed or formula fed? How much is he feeding and how many wet nappies?

I agree that he needs to be seen today - try midwife if you're still able to otherwise phone 111 and insist on being seen. If they don't have appointments within couple of hours tke him to A&E. It's not normal to sleep so much.

quoque · 07/12/2024 10:40

Trust yourself. You know this is a change and something is wrong - I would have him seen today as a matter of urgency.

Mumdiva99 · 07/12/2024 10:40

My last child was a sleeper. But.....baby is tiny. You will not be wasting anyone's time to jist get him checked. Pop to a&e. They can always send you home if all is good. They would rather you go than worry and leave it.
I hope you just have a happy full sleepy baby and this becomes a tale you tell in years to come. Xxxx

sel2223 · 09/12/2024 00:25

A good sleeper is one thing but a baby sleeping all day ever day 24/7 is another thing entirely - especially as it's a change. Definitely get checked out.

OhBeAFineGuyKissMe · 09/12/2024 08:01

Any update on this? I hope you little one is ok.

Samkhere · 10/12/2024 05:28

Hi mums
Thankyou for all the comments. He woke up a few hours after my post and was awake for a really long time. Guess he was just tired from our outing to the hospital the previous day.

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Pepperama · 10/12/2024 05:34

Glad he’s ok - always so much to worry about when they’re so tiny and fragile.

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