Hello there
I’m just looking for some advice.
I went to meet my consultant yesterday. I’m due to have my third child, the first two births were C-sections. The first was an emergency and the second was an elective because the first was an emergency.
I was quite shocked that they were actually offering to me to have a natural birth and wouldn’t give me advice on which pathway was the best, other than going through the risks and benefits of both. To me each risk and benefit has different weights attached to them. I am terrified of dying in labour. I think being a mum of two makes this fear very acute.
I chose to have C-section because of risks to my health and they scheduled it right up close to my due date.
I’m worried. I’m worried that I will going to natural labour that the scar will rupture and this is a very high risk risk. The doctor said if I go into natural labour they cannot guarantee a c-section.
I’m wondering what’s normal in terms of schedule sections for your third (or later) C-Section on the NHS and if anyone would be willing to share the experience.
I had planned to work close up to the scheduled date, with this date being a week later than I had expected, I am considering taking slightly earlier leave, at the very least not to stress my body and provoke early labour.
I’ve been scheduled for 39+4.
Thanks! Your insights and experience mean a lot.