Hi
I am a mother to a beautiful baby girl who arrived safely, I just have a question which may sound a bit strange but I'm trying to understand the reasons why the midwife said what she did.
I was induced due to growth issues but had a sweep the day before to see if it would get things going naturally.
The midwife attempted the sweep - I asked her to stop after about a minute because it was so painful - when she stopped, she looked really shocked and said "your baby's head is really low down" and she kept repeating this and pausing like she didn't really know what to do/say next? Like she froze to the spot as well. It was a bit weird, eventually I asked her if that was normal because she was making it sound like it wasn't?
She said yes but she hadn't felt a baby's head that low in a while and it hurt her hands doing the sweep?! She said she had to reach behind the baby's head to get to my cervix.
She then asked me if I do lots of walking/if I'm very active?
Just wondering if someone can shed some light on what she meant and why she reacted the way she did. I'm wondering if I have some issues with my pelvic floor which I might not know about yet?
She then started saying what would happen next etc so I didn't think to actually ask her again why she said what she did but it's making me a bit concerned that there's an issue with my anatomy or something? She was a very experienced midwife (unit manager of the triage unit!)
I had my baby via c section in the end because induction failed ultimately.
Thank you