Hi all
I had my first baby by c section 2 years ago but it was a dire emergency, completely unexpected and I can still feel the pain of having the spinal injection.
Baby no 2 is due next month, this time by elective c/s due to how my last pregnancy ended. Despite choosing this, I'm steadily getting more and more terrified of the bloody spinal. Last time was excruciating, I was petrified, and none of it was helped by the fact that we knew baby was barely hanging on.
Should add that I have absolutely no fear or needles, injections, surgeries, any of that. But this is taking over. Is it always as painful as I found it?? Or was it because everything was being done so quickly and I was already so tense?? They did have to pass it twice as the first failed.
And please no sugar-coating, if the consensus is that it is generally very painful, I need to know.