I'm 12 months PP, had emergency foreceps delivery that resulted in 3B tear beyond epiostomy.
The epiostomy has removed some of my labia and I hate the way it looks now, my body is no longer symmetrical, and the discomfort that the exposed scar tissue causes affects everything from intimacy to which underwear I can wear, which I've been told can take up to 2 years to ease.
Has anyone else experienced a partial loss of their labia with an epiostomy?
I had an appointment this morning to discuss reparative surgery with a surgeon (after being told in Jan by another HCP that I was eligible and it looked like a repair was highly likely so they referred me) however the surgeon has told me that he wouldn't be able to improve things - reattaching the remaining labia would likely not heal as it would be attached to scar tissue and if it did happen to attach, the skin being stretched would cause more discomfort. It was at this point he explained that the person who performed the epiostomy has removed part of the labia sadly and the remaining part is now much more mobile than usual, causing discomfort.
I appreciate what the surgeon is saying, but can't help feeling extremely disappointed especially as I have spent the last year feeling miserable about it and the reparative surgery option was quite literally life changing for me.
I just wanted to know if this is a common thing? The cut has changed my body considerably, my confidence has been knocked, the discomfort affects my relationship and I feel miserable again. (I've been referred for counselling but not yet heard anything)
I wasn't informed of any of the risks prior to the procedure, because it was an emergency and I'm just wondering if anyone else has experienced this, what you were able to do to improve things and whether it's worth me pursuing surgery or not?
TIA
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FirstTimeMum8819 · 16/04/2024 13:44
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