rouge, whereabouts do you live? i am around the corner from the Whit and as a result have the most rarefied antenatal care imaginable... a community midwife, really nice, who has visited me at home from the first appt. i've only had to go in for scans and early bloods.
she promises me there is a very high chance around 70 pc that she will actually deliver this baby. if not her, her partner, and if not her partner then one of the 12 or so midwives on her team. i am also able to call her at any time and she says when labour starts she will get this come and see me at home/measure me etc and give me guidance about when to go in. then as long as it's not a 24-hourer, she will stay with us for the duration of the labour. this blows my mind. it does sound too good to be true. i'll find out the truth in early feb.
there are apparently maybe 6 similar teams of commuinty midwives in the UK, and this is a new system, just introduced -- maybe a year ago?
i had dd at Royal Free 3 yrs ago. ghastly. no real support during labour, which went unexpectedly fast and because i was written off as inexperienced 1st timer and left to get on with it on my own, i ended up going the whole hog w/o any pain relief (birth plan? they didn't take a look at it. at one stage, i was even told to lay off the gas and air 'as you'll be needing that later' -- this was at the time when i must have been dilating furiously), and frankly sadistic night staff on ward afterwards.
the whit is dirty and horrid but to counter that, the only thing me and DH actually needed during DD's delivery was continuity of care, ie someone in attendance who was slightly interested in us and knew roughly what we wanted. the rest can go hang. and if a crisis emerges, i know from another experience during this pregnancy that the Whit has amazing specialists up its grubby sleeves.