Things I used: I didn't use anything during labour as I was induced so not allowed to eat or drink anything other than water, I changed into a nightie and did use some maternity pads as my waters were leaking a lot.
Afterwards I changed into a nightie with buttons for feeding, used tena lady incontinence pants, phone charger, lansinoh nipple cream, lip balm, snacks, slippers, flip flops, toiletries, big joggers to go home and breastfeeding top and hoody
For the baby I used: short sleeved vest and sleepsuits maybe X2, nappies, water wipes, muslin for drying bottom, cellular blanket, long sleeved vest and going home sleepsuit I'd chosen before hand, hat and cardigan
I took but didn't use: more muslins, more baby outfits, breast pads, dressing gown, ear phones, ready made milk