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Plus Size Repeated C-Section

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ChocGems · 09/10/2023 16:18

Hi Everyone, I’ll get straight into it…

I had an EMCS with my first child 2 years ago when I was in hospital for 5 days being induced 5 different times - all failed. Ending up on the hormone drip which sent baby’s heart rate skyrocketing and was given 5 mins to get ready for the EMCS. ‘Failure to progress labour’ was the term I was given and all in all it was very traumatic and still can be 2 years later.

I always wanted more than one child but have been scared to even try after the first birth. The first pregnancy was a dream, honestly loved every part - no problems. But I am and was overweight. Obese by medical standards…

I am on a mission to lose a significant amount (safely) for myself and my DD so that I can be healthier for her. I also think if I do end up trying for a second child it will be better to be lighter, even slightly!

I want to know if anyone who is truly plus size (obese by medical standards) had a repeated elective c-section for their second / third babies? And also has anyone plus size had successful VBACs? I would rather think about it now before choosing to get pregnant so I am prepared to make the choice.
You don’t need to say how much you weigh at all.

Many thanks!

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Scutterbug · 09/10/2023 16:20

Yes I’m obese and have had 4 sections with no issues x

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ChocGems · 09/10/2023 16:22

Thank you @Scutterbug! Did you find that you had to fight for the elective sections or were the midwives / consultants happy with your choice? I’ve heard they really push for VBACs.

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Scutterbug · 09/10/2023 16:28

I actually wanted a VBAC but they pushed me more towards c section. DD1 was similar to your experience, failed inductions. DS1 I wanted a VBAC but I went 10 days overdue and they won’t induce after a section so had section no 2. DS2 I hoped for a VBA2C and laboured but it didn’t progress so section no 3 and DD2 I was told would be a section full stop. I had 4 sections in 6 years.

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ChocGems · 09/10/2023 19:46

Wow, that’s incredible! I’m glad you and your babies are safe and well ❤

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HonkingHorns · 09/10/2023 19:53

My booking BMI with DC2 was 35. Had a successful VBAC. I was told that BMI wasn't that important in VBAC success rates, more why you had a c-section the first time round. I did have a planned section booked but baby came early. Consultant was happy either way and never mentioned weight.

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ChocGems · 09/10/2023 20:08

@HonkingHorns thank you. That’s really positive! The reason was failure to progress after many failed inductions. The consultant on the ward said they didn’t want to do the c-section for me because of weight….was the same consultant who came back 12 hours later saying it was my only option!

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FriedasCarLoad · 09/10/2023 20:16

BMI 31 with DC1 - home birth
BMI 33 with DC2 - EMCS
BMI 35 with DC3 - VBAC in birthing unit

Am now thankfully managing to lose weight, and hoping to have a fourth child and second VBAC sometime.

If you want a VBAC I'd recommend looking into the stats yourself and getting ready to argue your case when the time comes.

RiderGirl · 09/10/2023 20:19

Weight aside, things do get riskier the more sections you have. I work in an operating theatre and although have never seen an absolute disaster, have seen some tricky sections where there have been multiple previous sections.

Redlarge · 09/10/2023 20:32

Obese. 2 c sections. Felt shit after and wished i was fitter but i was ok in the end. Get as fit as you can and thats enough. Dont do anything dramatic.

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ChocGems · 09/10/2023 20:41

@FriedasCarLoad I’m so glad you had a successful VBAC! I think I’m leaning more towards elective section just based on how I didn’t even dilate to more than 1cm after several induction attempts with my first, so can see induction being required which isn’t good for VBACs.

@RiderGirl I know the more you have is a risk, I was petrified to even have the first section but didn’t have a choice and the baby had to come out. I don’t see myself having more than 2, not sure my anxiety could take it.

@Redlarge Glad you were ok in the end. I agree, I felt like crap after my section even though it went really well. I think the trauma of how I ended up having it made my recovery worse, that and my partner had spent half his paternity in the hospital with me while I was failing to be inducted didn’t help.
Definitely planning to shed some weight and it’s been 2 years already since my first section so the scar should be strong and established by now.

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HonkingHorns · 10/10/2023 07:30

That's crazy. How else were they going to get the baby out in an emergency?!

I also had failure to progress during my first labour, leading to EMCS. But I had got to 10cm. Baby just didn't move when I got to the pushing stage due to malposition. I was induced via the drip.

My VBAC was really quick and they think it's because I was fully dilated first time round - my body thought it had done it before. Which it sort of had, just bailed at the last minute 😂I originally had the planned section booked for DC2 because they were expected to be big and consultant thought the same thing might happen again (I.e. baby get stuck). I didn't want to be induced again so chose c-section.

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