I'm weighing up my pain relief options for birth and increasingly minded to ask for an epidural as soon as I can have one.
Initially I'd thought maybe I should play it by ear, start out with gas and air/ consider birth pool, but more and more I think, if I'm already quite pro epidural, realistically if I'm in a lot of pain how likely is it I will hold out from requesting one, since so many people who actively plan not to have an epidural end up changing their mind. So I'm thinking if I feel like I will likely end up having an epidural, with all the risks that entails, might as well get the maximum benefit from it as early as possible?
I know my hospital offers mobile epidurals which I think the patient can top up - how easy is it to control the pain relief with this? I would like to be able to move position, and have it wear off a bit to help with pushing (so that I get most of the pain relief for the contractions, pre pushing stage). Is it unrealistic to expect to be able to control the epidural pain relief that much?
Also what about going to the toilet? I know they often insert a catheter for peeing, but what happens about number 2s? If I had an epidural earlier on in the labour isn't it reasonably likely I'd have the epidural for hours and hours and eventually need to go to the toilet, not just for a wee?
Is there a time limit on how long the epidural can be in for? Like if you have one put in and 20 hours later you still aren't at the pushing stage is that a problem? Or can you take your time just as much as if you had no epidural?
And can you eat whilst you have an epidural in?