Hi!
I was considering an elective c-section during pregnancy due to gestational diabetes and was torn like you between the two so thought id share my experience (not sure it will help ha).
Baby was measuring big on all growth scans until the last scan at 38 weeks when her growth had dropped from the 70th to the 40th so a decision had to be made, me and the consultant agreed that if my body was showing positive signs of induction working id try vaginal and if not c-section would be booked. I had to go to the labour ward due to some complications in pregnancy with my own health and emergency surgery- my appendix ruptured at 30 weeks so had to be monitored closely through labour.
I was examined on the same day and was 3cm dilated and my waters were bulging (i had no pains or anything prior to this). I had a sweep on the same day and booked in for induction the following monday to give my body 5 extra days to see what happened. Unfortunately i had to attend MAU the following evening due to reduced movements so my induction was brought forward.
Saturday afternoon i was called into hospital and again asked if i was happy to go ahead with induction; i was still scared due to size of baby but agreed to try first and the agreement was any signs of struggling from me or baby and we would go to theatre.
My waters were broken at 10pm and the hormone drip started straight away, i asked for an epidural because id heard horror stories about the pain from the drip and got it straight away- I was one of the unlucky few and the epidural didn’t work for me, it half numbed one leg which made me immobile but still feeling every contraction!
Long story short, i was re-examined at 5am and was 10cm dilated, so from 10pm-5am i had fully dilated and didn’t even have extra pain relief; the contractions were strong but i just breathed through and took them one by one!
It came to pushing and babies heart rate dropped so after an hour of pushing she wasn’t born, i had to have forceps (which I really didn’t want but understood we needed baby out!) and had an episiotomy.
My little girl was born at 7am, she only weighed 5lbs which was miles off the estimated 8-9lbs from scans!
I needed stitches but recovered really well, only had pain relief immediately after birth but nothing at home and 8 week later im fully recovered; i was driving the following week and back to normal just tender.
Im not saying the drip wasn’t hard but it was nowhere near the horror stories i had read and heard, every labour is different but i had a really positive induction 🙂
I hope whatever you pick goes well! X