Hi all, need some help and advice! Im 14 weeks pregnant and really worried about childbirth. I already have a 15 month old daughter and had a terrible labour with her. Waters broke early sunday morning, didnt go into active labour so induced. Took 26 hours to dilate but could only make it to 9 cm. Prepared for c section but not needed. Tore twice and ended up having 4th degree episiotomy, daughter born ventouse. To be honest i know many people have their own horror stories and half of the labour i cant really remember. Either drugged up or being sick!!! I found after the birth the hardest. Severe back trouble for two weeks from the epirdural, still cant talk about the pain downstairs. It took seven months for the episiotomy to finally heal. Couldnt walk more than 10 mins without pain, couldnt sit on the floor and as for sex.... it still hurts like hell now!!!!!!!! Im so scared of going through the pain again, would a c section be easier in the long run?