Never done the birth thing before and am just wondering if breathing through the contractions helps or if this is all just a ploy to keep your mind off things and to concentrate on something other than the pain?
I understand the technicalities of oxygenating your blood supply and how this helps muscles relax and the baby and all that but I have never been one of these people who can just relax when you are really freezing out in the snow because "if you tense up you will just feel colder"
I am a stubborn b!tch sometimes so am worried about not being able to calm myself down when the actual labour part starts...
THanks for any feedback xxx