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Episiotomy and stitches, who normally does the stitching?

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Kardelen · 17/01/2023 11:07

Hi everyone,
my last birth the doctor did an episiotomy. Was in theatre so they stiched me up.

however, this time I’ll be having early epidural and will be in a room I’ve been told. So in this case does a midwife do the stitches?

heard horror stories so not sure if I should just go for c section instead. If any midwife’s stitched you, how was it?

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TrodOnLegoAgain · 17/01/2023 11:13

Nothing wrong with having a MW do the stitching at all- they do it all the time, possibly more than doctors do.

slytherinabout · 17/01/2023 11:16

My episiotomy stitches were done by a doctor, degraded and the wound still causes me bother. My stitches by a midwife after DS2 healed no problem at all.

OverTheHillAndDownTotherSide · 17/01/2023 11:17

Consultant did my episiotomy and stitches (forceps delivery). It took more than 7 years to heal (rendering DD an only). Every other doctor or consultant who looked at it afterwards asked where on earth I had had my baby as it was done so badly.

Gingernuttie · 17/01/2023 11:17

Midwife did mine, and it all looks and feels exactly as it did prior to birth. They probably do a lot more than doctors do I imagine.

Kardelen · 17/01/2023 11:20

Thank you everyone! Heard a few horror stories so made me really anxious.

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Kardelen · 17/01/2023 11:21

Oh no, what was actually wrong with it ?

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Squamata · 17/01/2023 11:23

You can find horror stories about anything. Including C-sections.

I'd go for a midwife who does them all the time over a doctor or consultant who does a huge range of things, any day.

Helendegenerate · 17/01/2023 11:24

Over 20 years ago for me and the stitches healed quickly with no problems and no visible changes but it happened at 4am and the young male doctor was arrogant/offhand and I was literally only slab of meat in front of him. Not a single polite or nice word from him 😞

Dontlistitonfacebook · 17/01/2023 11:25

Midwife, 30 years ago. İt was fine.

stormelf · 17/01/2023 11:26

I have had tears after all three births. My stitches after dc1 were done by a doctor following surgery for retained placenta. The stitches for my others dc were done by a midwife and never had any issues. Stitches were relatively pain free, healed nicely and no problems since

BackOnTheBandWagon · 17/01/2023 11:27

Trainee / early career midwife did mine under supervision. She did an ok job, but I'm 5 months pregnant and this time I want an experienced midwife doing it, as she definitely messed up a bit and it took nearly a year to heal properly - pain for around eight months and then scar tissue took time to soften. Not fun.

Wnikat · 17/01/2023 11:27

Midwife did mine both times. No issues.

Twizbe · 17/01/2023 11:27

Midwife stitched my tear. She did a great job, she was teaching a student midwife at the time as well.

2 years later same midwife delivered my second and I didn't tear at all. She was very pleased with her handiwork lol

Kardelen · 17/01/2023 11:28

Thank you so much. Did the retained placenta happen on your first, and the others were okay?
i had retained placenta on my first too. So worried about it happening again

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Revjane · 17/01/2023 11:29

My stitches were done by a midwife at 2 in the morning, she made a mess of it and I had a tender lumpy scar. I just lived with it. 30 years later the consultant gynaecologist who had done my hysterectomy said to me "I hope you don't mind. While I was down there I repaired that terrible episiotomy for you." It's perfect!

RichardOsmansXraySpecs · 17/01/2023 11:30

Some scruffy looking bloke (could’ve been mistaken for the window cleaner) no idea who he was but at that moment in time I didn’t really care 😆

(I would never chose a c-section just because of stitches. I’ve had 3 natural births, one c-section and the c-sect took ages to heal from, like ages and ages)

fruitbrewhaha · 17/01/2023 11:31

MW did mine, they are very experienced. If you are weighing up the possibility of a midwife making a bad job of stiches and having a c section I would risk the bad job of stiches.

20viona · 17/01/2023 11:31

I was stitched by a reg both times as I had to go to theatre for manual placenta removal. The first time it was too tight and I needed a small op 18 months later to refashion. Worked a treat and had my second child 18 months later. Was even better after my second.

Kardelen · 17/01/2023 11:36

Ah!
must’ve been scary. We’re you in a room prior to retained placenta? Worried may happen to me again this time round.
they said they’d take me into theatre to remove it, but last time I lost a lot of blood so don’t want that to happen again.

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Eatentoomanyroses · 17/01/2023 11:49

MW did mine. Normal for it to be a midwife. They’re probably more experienced. That said my first was a hatchet job. Extended into top of my thigh, split open, infected and didn’t heal for a year. My second didn’t need an episiotomy but midwife sewed me up and it was all fine.

20viona · 17/01/2023 11:50

@Kardelen it's apparently very unlikely to happen twice but I unfortunately was that person! Second time it felt much more controlled because I refused to be messed with on delivery suite and they took me straight to theatre for a spinal block. Really annoying because I had really quick inductions twice on only a hour or two.

Bramblecrumble22 · 17/01/2023 11:52

Both births I've had midwives stitch me. First was great with the epidral and second for tears. Both great.

Bramblecrumble22 · 17/01/2023 11:53

*episiotomy not epidural

PanettoneMoly · 17/01/2023 11:53

Consultant did my stitches in theatre after forceps delivery. Community midwife, while checking the healing process, asked if I’d had it done by a consultant as, in her experience, the midwives will stitch more “thoughtfully”.

Also the stitches popped open after 8 days so, to be honest, I’m not wholly convinced I got a better job done from the consultant in a theatre environment over 3 hours with a spinal block and a big light shining right up my hoo-haa vs an experienced midwife in the delivery room.

DoggyDwelling · 17/01/2023 11:54

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