I gave birth to my son via EMCS in April 2021. I was induced at 39+5 due to reduced movements. My body had shown no signs whatsoever of going into labour spontaneously, my cervix was completely closed and basically everything they did to try and get me to dilate failed and I ended up having to have a C-section.
I'm currently 33 weeks pregnant and due to give birth again in January, 21 months after the C-section.
I would really like to try for a VBAC but the clinic where I am due to give birth, in France, doesn't have a great track record for VBACs. According to the clinic's statistics, almost 100% of women have an epidural and over 90% of women who have had a previous C-section go on to have another one.
Last week I had an appointment with the obstetrician who will probably be delivering my baby, and she said that once I am in active labour, i.e. more than 3cm, they will want to put the epidural in, just in case we end up having to go for a repeat C-section. She also says that if my labour isn't progressing, I won't be able to labour for as long before moving on to a C-section due to the risk of scar rupture.
Ironically, the anaesthetist, who doesn't get paid if I don't have any anaesthetic, seems more relaxed. She says I could use the bath tub for pain relief in early labour, have an epidural when I ask for one, and she could put the needle in and either not put any anaesthetic in or keep it to a very low dose so that I can stay mobile. She was there for my last birth and looked after me really well. I did have an epidural after half a day of labouring without one, and it worked perfectly and I was still quite mobile afterwards.
I'm not opposed to having an epidural at all, and I don't believe that having one was the reason why my labour didn't progress last time. That said, I am really keen to try for a VBAC and I can't help but feel that the idea that I will be under pressure to have an epidural put in as soon as I'm a certain number of cm dilated, and that once I'm in active labour I'll be on the clock, seems to be setting me up to fail.
Other than trying everything I can think of to go into labour spontaneously, do you have any tips for maximising my chances of having a successful VBAC in these circumstances?
Also, is the obstetrician right when she says it's better to have the epidural in place in case I need to go for a C-section? How quickly could the anaesthetist do a spinal block if I hadn't had an epidural and needed to have another C-section in the end?
Any advice much appreciated!