Hi all
I know this is quite a specific topic but I'm hoping someone can come along and chat with me.
I had my DD back in 2019 and had a gorgeous natural birth in the birthing pool on just gas and air, it was quick and honestly I was on a total high afterwards. I appreciate I'm super lucky to have had it go so quickly and smoothly. Afterwards I lost around 1.2ltr of blood which upon having a birth reflections meeting with the hospital earlier this year, have been advised was mainly down to my 2nd degree tear. I was kept in a few days but didn't have a transfusion.
I'm now 17 weeks pregnant with my 2nd and saw a consultant after my 12 week scan who basically railroaded me into having a labour ward birth, stating I need a cannula on admission and a drip straight after birth. I knew I would need these two things as I was told this would be prevention next time in my birth reflections meeting but was advised this is fine to do in the birth centre and fine for a pool birth again (if possible).
I reflected on the meeting with the consultant and contacted the hospital for a 2nd opinion and a lovely midwife rang me and said I can absolutely choose where I birth, and that yes I can have all those prevention's mentioned in the birth centre. It was my choice to weigh up risks v benefits.
Personally, I feel a birth centre birth will allow me to stay more relaxed and reduce the chances of intervention etc as it's less of a 'medical' environment. Our birth centre is actually in the main hospital and the labour ward is literally a set of doors across the corridor so if anything were to happen I can transfer straight over.
Am I crazy for wanting to push for a birth centre birth again? Has anyone also been advised for a labour ward consultant led birth changed this and birthed where they chose? I'd love to hear stories of this please.
Thanks in advance :)